INTIMACY
Intimacy is like a glue that holds couples together in a relationship. Try and separate sex from the rest of stuff that is going on in your life. Never use sex has a weapon between you and your partner because in a relationship you have to compromise. I know that no relationship is perfect and without friction some more than others, but we should do our best to make it work. I know that when you’ve got kids it becomes harder to have quality time together for each other. But it is important to revive the dating game when ever you‘ve got the change to do so.
It's good to go out with each other devote a day or a weekend and just enjoy your self's have some fun and sex like you did when you first meet. Talk to each other and listen to what each other have to say, because this is important. If you suddenly realise you can be home from work early one day and have the house to yourselves. Use that precious gift of unusual time together to add the freshness back in your love life. Just remember that variety is the spice of life. Remember how before you were a settled couple you would meet for dates; go out somewhere pleasant, talking together.
In fact spend a whole evening going through a ritual designed to put you most at ease together and most looking forward to making love. Of course people who start affairs enjoy it, and when they have the chance they go away together, and they devote a weekend or a few hours to have fun, sex, and enjoy it very much. So at least once a year, get away with your legitimate partner to spend as long as possible alone together. In a pleasant setting especially if you‘ve got kids you need to spend quality time together with each other.
Don’t feel you have to spend all of your time in bed without taking to each other. It’s important for the quality of your sex life, that you should share some time talking together about your feelings, hopes and fears. Apart from the sex, a major reason people have affairs is that their lover listens to them, in a way their regular partner hasn’t been bothering to do. That is why couples should try and be there for each other. Half the fun of an affair is often seizing even uncomfortable opportunities they will take whatever they can get. Faithful couples shouldn’t miss out on it all, they should try hard to seize every moment. Read more from the ebook Principles of love and life thank you.
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